奶奶活了81岁,充其量是位农家老妪,山野村妇,斗大字不识半箩,向来与诗书无缘;可奶奶在家庭中又属绝对权威,事无巨细,均由她一锤定音。今天想来,我总觉得这与她凡事讲究忌讳不无关系。因为在我的记忆里,奶奶忌讳成癖,比如,客人刚走,就不许家人动笤帚,搞擦拭,认为这种举动是对来客的不尊重,不抬举。所以倘或有垃圾,洗脸水什么的需要清理,务必赶在客人出门前进行。到别人家里借东西或是去小坐,忌讳冒里冒失闯进屋里去,要在院子里 Grandma lived 81 years old, at best, is a farmhouse old woman, mountain village woman, fighting the characters do not know half 向, has always been missed with poetry; grandma in the family is also an absolute authority, everything, by her final word. I want to come today, I always feel that it is not unrelated to her stress taboo. Because in my memory, my grandmother taboo as a joke, for example, the guests just go, they are not allowed to move the family broom, engage in wiping, that this move is disrespectful to visitors, not lifting. So if there is rubbish, wash your face what needs to be cleaned, be sure to rush out before the guests go out. To borrow something from someone else’s house or go to a small sit-out, take a precautionary measure to break into the house, in the yard