亲子距离包括亲子空间距离和亲子心理距离。研究发现:母子之间有了空间距离的农村孩子的学习焦虑、对人焦虑、过敏倾向最严重;亲子之间没有空间距离的其次;父子之间有了空间距离的最轻。但不能就此得出结论:母亲不应该离家出外打工;父亲则最好远离孩子,免得给孩子的心理健康造成危害。因为这是就事论事,并没有抓住问题的实质。实质是“过分严厉、简单粗暴、不近人情”的管教态度。建议设法改变农村家庭的父亲普遍具有的这种管教态度。 Parent-child distance includes parent-child distance and parent-child distance. The study found that rural children with spatial distance between mother and child have learning anxiety, anxiety and allergy tendency, the second is the distance between parents and children, and the lightest distance between father and son. However, we can not conclude that mothers should not go out to work outside their home and that fathers should stay away from their children so as not to harm their children’s mental health. Because this is a matter of fact, it fails to grasp the essence of the problem. The essence is “too harsh, simple and crude, not people ” discipline attitude. It is proposed to try to change this kind of discipline which is generally found in the fathers of rural families.