我们已经知道,童年时父母的养育方式对于我们今天的人格,有着极大的影响。但你未必意识到,小时候和兄弟姐妹之间的竞争对今天的你,有着怎样的影响。家庭治疗的鼻祖萨提亚女士,很早的时候就开始做家庭心理治疗。她发现一个情况——家里面最被忽略的孩子,最容易出问题。想得到父母的关注是每个孩子的天性,以此确认他们最早的自我价值感。 We already know that parental rearing patterns in childhood have a huge impact on our personality today. But you may not realize how the competition between you and your brothers and sisters had affected you today. Ms. Sartia, the earliest person in family therapy, started her family psychotherapy very early. She found a situation - the most neglected child in the house, the most prone to problems. To get the attention of parents is the nature of each child, in order to confirm their earliest sense of self-worth.