一位心理学博士在分析目前我国家庭教育现状时警告说,必须警惕另一种棍棒教育——过度关怀。他在说明这个问题时,使用了“关怀强迫症”这个词语。所谓“关怀强迫症”,就是一个人特别需要别人依赖自己,总是爱向别人提供不需要的关怀。并且,这种人还强迫别人接受自己的关怀,从而使别人不能独立。当别人依赖自己的时候,他就会感到满足,感到自己有价值。 A psychology doctor warned in the analysis of the current status of family education in our country that another kind of stick education must be wary - excessive care. In explaining this problem, he used the term “obsessive-compulsive disorder”. The so-called “obsessive-compulsive disorder” means that one person particularly needs others to rely on oneself and always loves to provide unwanted care to others. And such people also force others to accept their own care, so that others can not be independent. When others rely on themselves, he will feel satisfied and feel valued.