二十一世纪是充满挑战的世纪,是以人的素质为根本的激烈竞争的世纪,随着社会由计划经济向市场经济的转轨,封闭型向开放型转变,人与人之间的交往越来越频繁、广泛、深入而复杂,因而人的交往素质显得格外重要。而如今的少先队员,大多生长在独身子女家庭,由于在日常生活中家长对孩子的学习与生活管制太多,使孩子失去了与同龄伙伴交往的机会。孩子进入集体生活后便表现出交往经验与技巧的不足;而家长对孩子 The 21st century is a century full of challenges. It is a century of fierce competition based on human quality. With the transition from a planned economy to a market economy, the transition from a closed economy to an open economy and the more intercourse between people The more frequent, extensive, in-depth and complex, so the quality of human interaction is particularly important. Today, young pioneers are mostly grown in single-parent families. Because parents have too much control over children’s learning and living in their daily lives, the children lose the opportunity to interact with their peers. After entering the collective life of children show their lack of communication experience and skills; and parents of children