【案例】小涛是初二年级的一名男生,是家里的独生子,自尊心很强。上小学的时候,他学习成绩还不错,老师和同学都挺喜欢他,可是升入初中以后,小涛经常因为种种原因受到批评。他觉得班主任好像总是看他不顺眼,自己怎么做都不对。在小涛眼里,班主任的“权利”很大,初中毕业的综合评价都是班主任写的,自己如果想上高中、读大学,就不能“得罪”他。小涛因此陷入深深的苦恼中。小涛在心理咨询的时候眼睛并不看着咨询师,而是盯着地板或者其他地方, [Case] ​​Xiaotao is a boy in the second grade, is the only son of the family, a strong self-esteem. When he was in elementary school, his academic performance was not bad. Both the teacher and his classmates loved him very much. However, after he entered junior high school, Xiao Tao was often criticized for various reasons. He thought the class teacher always seemed to dislike him and did not do anything about himself. In Tao’s eyes, the class teacher “rights ” great, comprehensive evaluation of junior high school graduation is written by the class teacher, if you want to go to high school, college, you can not “offend ” him. Xiaotao so into deep distress. Xiaotao in the psychological counseling when the eyes do not look at the consultant, but staring at the floor or other places,