当你看到别人成功时,当你看到别人拥有你没有的机会时,当你看到同一起跑线上的其他人平步青云时,当你苦苦追求不获而别人轻而易举得到时,心中会不会产生不满情绪甚至怀恨在心,且久久不能释怀?这就是嫉妒。严格地讲嫉妒是人们为竞争一定的权益,对相应的成功者或潜在的幸运者怀有的一种冷漠、贬低、排斥甚至是敌视的心理状态,俗称“红眼病、吃醋、吃不到葡萄说葡萄酸”等。嫉妒就内心感受来讲,前期表现为由攀比到失望的 When you see others succeed, when you see others have the opportunity you do not have, when you see other people on the same starting line go hand in hand, when you are hard to pursue others will not easily get, the heart will not Disgruntled or even resentful, and long time can not be relieved? This is jealous. Strictly speaking, jealousy is a kind of indifference, belittling, exclusion or even hostile state of mind for people who compete for certain rights and interests and for the corresponding successful or potential lucky people, commonly known as “pink-eyed, jealous, unable to eat grapes Say that sour ”and so on. Jealousy in terms of inner feelings, the performance of the early comparisons from disappointment