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按照电话中约定的时间,路妍准时来到了我的心理热线工作室。因为有过几次电话交流,所以她很快就消除了陌生感,向我袒露了她的心事。 “我的婚姻生活很不幸福。丈夫战语是我的大学同学,我们是因为爱而结婚的。我认为我们可以幸福一生的,可是,幸福的感觉没有持续多久,我就发现生活并不是我想像的那样。 ”婚后,可能是彼此距离的骤然拉近,我和战语之间的摩擦多了起来,时常闹些不愉快。渐渐地,我发现战语有许多在恋爱期间没有暴露出来的劣迹。而最让我不能忍受的是,在他的观念里,他竟认为男女在情感方面是不能平等的,男的可以在外面逢场作戏,维持一种所谓的‘家星红旗不倒,外面彩旗飘飘’的局面,而女的却必须做到绝对的‘忠诚’。在这种观念或引导下,新婚不久,他就出现了情
In accordance with the agreed time on the phone, Yan Road, on time came to my psychological hotline studio. Because she had several phone conversations, she quickly dispelled the strangeness and revealed her to me. “My marriage life is not happy .HusbandWalking is my college classmates, we are married because of love .I think we can be happy for life, but the feeling of happiness did not last long, I found that life is not I imagine that. ”" After marriage, may be a sudden narrowing of distance from each other, and I have more friction between the wars, and often nothing more than unpleasant. Gradually, I found that many of the wordings were misdeeds that were not revealed during love. What makes me unbearable most often is that in his conception, he actually thought that men and women could not be equal in terms of emotion, and men could play outside in a frenzy to maintain the so-called ’ ’The situation, but women must be absolutely’ loyal ’. In this concept or guidance, soon after the wedding, he appeared love