教育离不开沟通,但很多老师在和学生、家长交流的时候往往感觉无能为力,甚至越沟通效果越差。当我们在探讨沟通技巧的时候,不妨首先探讨一下和学生交流要保持的观念,笔者以为,以下六个观念是有效沟通的必备前提。承认差异,改变评价标准。没有两个人是一样的,不要用统一的标准来衡量学生,这样你就不会感觉很多学生不合格了。我们只有承认差异,才能用更多元的标准来评价学生,也更容易让我们找到学生的闪光点。 Education can not do without communication, but many teachers often feel powerless when communicating with students and parents, and the worse the communication effect, the worse. When we are talking about communication skills, we might as well explore the concept of communication with students first. The author believes that the following six concepts are necessary preconditions for effective communication. Recognize differences and change evaluation criteria. No two people are the same, do not use a uniform standard to measure students, so you will not feel many students failed. Only by recognizing the differences can we evaluate the students with more diverse criteria and make it easier for us to find the bright spots for the students.