依据心理学和公关原理,人与人之间的沟通,应遵循“真诚”的信条。美国哲学家爱默生说过:“人类历史每一件大事,都是用热诚来换得胜利。”教师做学生思想工作,找学生谈话,也应遵循这样的原则——用热诚换得与学生的沟通,并在此基础上,通过适当的方式,有效地说服学生,解决问题。找学生谈话,有时会碰到各种各样的情况:或低头不语,或面露不悦,或远远地保持距离,或你说一句,他顶一句……透过这些现象,可以看到,学生不同程度地存在着时抗心理。如何消除这种对抗心理?下面分六个方面来谈谈自己的看法。 According to psychology and PR principles, the communication between people should follow the “sincere” creed. Emerson, an American philosopher, said: “Every major event in human history is done with enthusiasm for victory.” Teachers should follow the principle of student ideological work and student talk - Students communicate, and on this basis, through appropriate ways to effectively persuade students to solve the problem. Find a student conversation, sometimes encounter a variety of situations: or bow down, or dew, or far to keep a distance, or you say he top sentence ... Through these phenomena, you can see To, students exist to varying degrees, anti-psychological. How to eliminate this confrontation? Here are six aspects to talk about their own views.