朋友聚在一起，儿女的教育总是共同的话题之一。第一代的中国移民，不但父母面临着本土文化和异域文化之间的冲突，儿女们也非常辛苦地在两种文化、两种传统和两种道德之间徘徊抉择。“既然是中国人的孩子，就应该接受中国的传统。”朋友是个有点固执和严肃的父亲，来美十几年 Friends come together and children’s education is always one of the common topics. The first generation of Chinese immigrants not only confronted their parents with clashes between indigenous cultures and exotic cultures, but also children, who worked very hard to make a choice between the two cultures, the two traditions and the two ethics. “Since it is a Chinese child, we should accept the Chinese tradition.” Friends are a bit stubborn and serious father, coming to the United States for more than a decade