国家督学周德藩说:“矛盾的家庭与矛盾的孩子,这个问题在今天应引起每个家庭及教育工作者的高度重视。如今家长在言教、身教等方面所表现出来的种种矛盾化的教育,极容易把孩子培养成多重人格。孩子们在成长中承受着许多矛盾的人生观、价值观的教化,必将搅乱他们的幼嫩的心智。” 1.在做人上,现在的孩子处在“言教”与“身教”的矛盾中。 Zhou Du-fan, State Inspector, said: “Conflicting families and contradictory children should be given high priority by every family and educator today. Today’s various contradictory education shown by parents in terms of preaching, teaching, etc. Easy to develop children into multiple personality.Children grow up in many contradictory outlook on life, the values ​​of education, will surely disrupt their young mind. ”1. In life, the child is now in“ preaching ” And “plots” in the conflict.