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我想在自己年老的时候,依旧能感受生命之美。总在看宣教片,常回家看看,多陪父母说话。这不是我要的老年——充满着弱势的怜悯,无奈的孝道重压。我不想让我的儿子出于理法道德不得不来看我,我不想让自己老了以后活在整天期盼儿女孙子电话的孤单里。我在国外,看过很多老年人精气神极好,打高尔夫,办party,老得很有风骨和气质,状态极佳。其实中国也有很多这样的老人,退休以后上老年大学,琴棋书画,写回忆录,还做点慈善。
I think when I was old, I still could feel the beauty of life. Always watching the film, often go home and see, and more parents to speak. This is not the elderly I want - full of weak pity, helpless filial piety. I do not want my son to have to come to see me out of legal ethics. I do not want to let myself be old and live alone all the time looking forward to the phone calls of my children and grandchildren. I have been abroad and I’ve seen many elders, such as elite, golf, clubs, old-fashioned style and temperament, in excellent condition. In fact, there are many such elderly people in China. After retirement, they go to older universities, poetry and calligraphy, writing memoirs and doing charity.