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一对经过多年热恋后结婚的夫妻突然分手了,其实在外人看来他们的生活是很美满的。问及原由,双方都觉得对方婚后缺乏激情,没有了当年那种豪情澎湃的人生冲动,甚至随着时间的推移,双方的向心力越来越小,经常有恍如隔世的感觉,有时谁都懒得和谁说话。心理专家称这种现象为“爱情厌倦症”。之所以会产生这种问题,主要有以下几个原因: 首先,随着社会生活节奏的不断加快,人们把主要精力放在了工作、学习和对各类新生事物的“充电”上,相对导致夫妻之间缺乏感情上的交流。长时间不能与对方共享生活的乐趣,甚至无暇顾及对方的情感世界,于是逐渐出现了疏离感和厌倦感,起初的矛盾缘于一些小事,后来由小到大,慢慢就引发了家庭战争。
After a couple of years after the marriage married couple suddenly broke up, in fact, outsiders seem to their life is very happy. Asked about the reason, both sides felt that the other party lacked passion after marriage, and did not have the impulsive life impulse of that year. Even with the passage of time, the centripetal efforts of both parties became smaller and smaller. Who speaks. Psychological experts call this phenomenon “love tiredness.” There are several reasons for this kind of problem: First, as the pace of social life continues to accelerate, people focus mainly on the “charging” of work, study, and all kinds of new things, which in turn leads to Lack of emotional communication between husband and wife. For a long time can not share the fun of life with each other, and even did not have time to take into account each other’s emotional world, so gradual emergence of a sense of alienation and boredom, the initial contradictions due to some small things, then from small to large, slowly triggered a family war.