既不想也下不了决心和妻子离婚,同时也不忍更不敢丢开情人不管,他疲于应付,做不了任何决定。没享受到所谓的“齐人之福”易风出现在咨询室,我稍感奇怪。40多岁的男人遭遇中年危机,抑郁、焦虑、强迫的不少,但因为情感问题只身而来的却属罕见。填完表格,易风尴尬地表示第一次来咨询,不知道该怎么做。我用轻松、平和的语调回应:“你想到什么就说什么好了。” Neither want nor can not be determined to divorce his wife, but also can not bear to even dare to leave the lover no matter, he was struggling to deal with, can not make any decision. I did not enjoy the so-called “blessed happiness” easy to appear in the counselor’s room, I am a little strange. 40-year-old man suffered middle-aged crisis, depression, anxiety, forced a lot, but because of emotional problems, it is rare. Fill the form, easy to embarrassed the wind said the first time to consult, do not know what to do. I respond in a relaxed, calm tone: “What did you say when you think of it.”