我国伟大的教育家陶行知先生曾这样教育早恋的青少年:每个人,无论男女,到了一定年龄是要谈恋爱,要过家庭生活的。但是,如树上的果子,是熟的好吃,还是生的好吃?象我们这里的杏子,要是没成熟就摘下来好吃吗?人也象果子,要长得成熟,有了学问,会做工作,又有养育子女的能力,就好比果子熟了,那 The great educator of our country, Mr. Tao Xingzhi, used to teach young people who love puppy love: Everyone, male or female, has to fall in love and have family life at a certain age. However, if the fruit on the tree is cooked and delicious, or is it delicious? Like the apricots we have here, if it is not mature, it will be picked and eaten well. People are also like fruits, they have to mature and learn. Will be able to do work, but also have the ability to raise children, it is like fruit is cooked, then