儿子9岁了,一出生后就是他奶奶带着。最近奶奶查出癌症晚期,医生说最多还有3个月时间,治疗也无济于事。得知奶奶会离开他,孩子快疯了,整天哭,也不上学,就在家守着奶奶。我们该怎么做才能让孩子接受这件事?9岁的孩子,他应该知道死亡会发生在自己以及身边人身上,而且人死不能复生。他“快疯了,整天哭,在家守着”等情绪反应,不是因为不懂死亡,而是缘于如下:首先是对不了解、同时又无法阻挡的不好的事情的恐惧。因为没有人能告诉他死后的世界是什么样?其次是孩子的习惯被 9-year-old son, a born with his grandmother. Grandma late detection of cancer late, the doctor said there are up to 3 months, the treatment is of no avail. I learned that grandma will leave him, the child is going crazy, crying all day, do not go to school, guarding her grandmother at home. What should we do to get the child to accept it? The 9-year-old should know that death will happen to himself and to those around him, and that people will not be able to recover from the dead. His emotional reactions, such as “going crazy, crying all day long, staying at home”, are not due to ignorance of death, but rather to the following: First, the fear of the bad things that you do not understand, but can not stop at the same time. Because no one can tell what the world after his death is, followed by children’s habits are