1965年,一位韩国学生到剑桥大学主修心理学。在喝下午茶的时候,他常到学校的咖啡厅或茶座听一些成功人士聊天。这些成功人士包括诺贝尔奖获得者,某一些领域的学术权威和一些创造了经济神话的人,这些人幽默风趣,举重若轻,把自己的成功都看得非常自然和顺理成章。时间长了,他发现,在国内时,他被一些成功人士欺骗了。那些人为了让正在创业的人知难而退,普遍把自己的创业艰辛夸大了,也就是说,他们在用自己的成功经历吓唬那些还没 In 1965, a Korean student majored in psychology at Cambridge University. While drinking tea, he often went to the school cafe or teahouse to listen to some successful people chatting. These successful people include Nobel Prize winners, academic authorities in certain fields and people who have created economic myths. These people are humorous and witty. They regard their success as natural and logical. For a long time, he discovered that at home, he was deceived by some successful people. Those people who retired in order to make people who are starting up business often recklessly exaggerated their entrepreneurship. That is to say, they are using their own successes to scare those who haven’t