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当老师、家长总要反复唠叨初中学生学习成绩不好或其它毛病,还有一些学生的好奇心极强,往往成年人向他们郑重宣布禁止的东西,他们反而越想接触,如玩电子游戏、交异性朋友、晚自习偷看电视球赛、甚至喝酒、吸烟等。而针对这种现象家长、教师不给予理解或帮助,不分对象的深情层次或问题性质,一概过高的上纲上线批评指责。就会引起初中学生的逆反心理,初中学生就会表现出与教育者要求相反的言行,结果是“你让他上东,他偏西,叫他打
When teachers and parents always nagging junior high school students’ academic performance or other problems, and some students are extremely curious, adults often solemnly declare to them that what they forbid, they are more inclined to contact, such as playing video games , Sex friend, night peek TV game, and even drinking, smoking and so on. In response to this phenomenon parents, teachers do not give understanding or help, regardless of the object’s affectionate level or the nature of the problem, all too high on the line criticism. Junior high school students will show the contrary to the requirements of educators and deeds, the result is ”You let him on the East, he west, called him to fight