人们性生活时习惯于联想到光线、耳语、动作等,却不常想到幻想。其实,性幻想也是夫妻之间性交流的有效手段之一。有这样一对夫妇,以往,他们常依赖长时间的机械刺激来达到高潮,性幻想只是偶然在无意识状态下出现。由于不了解它的功效,夫妇俩还一度努力“排除杂念”,致使消除性幻想和达到性高潮一样吃力。后来经心理医生点拨,明白了性幻 When people are used to think of light, whisper, movement, etc. in sexual life, they do not often think of fantasy. In fact, sexual fantasies are also one of the most effective means of sexual exchange between husband and wife. There are couples who in the past often rely on long mechanical stimuli to reach orgasm, and sexual fantasies happen by accident only in the unconscious state. Unaware of its efficacy, the couple worked hard once and for all to “get rid of distractions,” which led to the elimination of sexual fantasies as hard as it was to reach orgasm. Psychiatrist later dialed, understand the sexual fantasies