新学期,班里要选举班干部,小军觉得自己各方面都不错,满以为竞选劳动委员可以当选,但结果却是落选了,他垂头丧气,一句话也不想说当你的孩子像小军一样面对失败,遭遇挫折时,你该怎么办呢? 不怜悯孩子“这太不公平了,我们小军哪也不差,怎么就那么倒霉,妈妈(爸爸)真替你感到难过。”这样同情、怜悯孩子只会 The new semester, the class to elect cadres, the small army feel good in all aspects, full that the election of the working committee members can be elected, but the result is unsuccessful, he dejected, a word do not want to say when your child is like a small army What do you do when you face frustration and setbacks? Do not have any mercy on your children. “This is not fair. We are not so bad at small armies. How unlucky it is. Mom (Daddy) really felt sorry for you.” , Mercy children will only