记得去年,从某报纸上读到一段报道:在签证留学的大军中,某些女青年采用天真单纯状以获取签证官员的好感,结果事与愿违,她们被拒签了。一位对中西文化都有所了解的美国人这样评价道:在中国,年轻人,尤其是女孩子的不成熟、天真单纯状总是能行得通的,而在美国的文化中,不成熟就是某些方面有问题,无论你是男是女,在任何社会公共生活中,是别人无法予以信任的人。因为一个不成熟的人是不能承担责任的。 I remember last year, read a newspaper from a report: In the army of students studying abroad, some young women adopted naive simple to get the visa officer’s favor, the result was contrary to their wishes, they were refused. One American who knew both Chinese and Western cultures commented: In China, immature and innocent innocents of young people, especially girls, always work, and are immature in American culture There are some aspects of the problem, whether you are male or female, in any social public life, is someone else can not be trusted. Because an immature person can not take responsibility.