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在这次调查中,有百分之五十的小学生说他们“有时”甚至“常常”不愿把自己的心事告诉家长。在家长中也有相当数量的人承认确实存在这种现象。与自己从小拉扯大的孩子失去了一种心灵上的沟通,对于作父母的来说,这无疑是十分苦恼和伤心的事。如果我们对家长说:“别犯愁,这是很普通的现象,而且原因很可能就在你们身上。”他们肯定会感到奇怪。但事实的确如此。孩子很小的时候全面地依赖父母,完全按照父母说的那样去做。当长到三岁左右的时候,生理和心理的发育赋予了他们一定的活动能力,他们就会自作主
In this survey, 50% of primary school students said that they “do not want to tell their parents about their own feelings sometimes, even often. A considerable number of parents also acknowledge the existence of this phenomenon. Lost a kind of spiritual communication with his big children, it is undoubtedly a very distressed and sad thing for the parents. If we say to parents: ”Do not worry, this is a very common phenomenon, and the reason is probably right for you." They will surely feel weird. But the fact is true. When children are young, they depend on their parents completely and do exactly what their parents say. When they grow up to about three years of age, physical and mental development gives them a certain degree of mobility, they will self-assert