家庭教育的手段尽管是多种多样的,但主要的则是语言,即父母与子女的谈话。父母习惯使用怎样的词汇、句式、语气跟孩子说话,这对孩子的品行修养、心理素质乃至智力开发,都会产生深刻的影响。我们可以毫不夸张地说,某些家教的失败,往往就是由父母语言的失当造成的。 “大人说话,小孩子站到一边去!” “喂,下午到外婆家去一趟!” “明天放学你必须在5点之前到家!” Although the means of family education are varied, the main one is language, that is, the conversation between parents and children. Parents are used to what kind of vocabulary, sentence, tone to speak with their children, which will have a profound impact on children’s moral character, mental quality and even intellectual development. It is no exaggeration to say that the failure of certain tutors is often caused by the misplacement of the parent language. “” “” Tomorrow afternoon, you have to be home before 5 o’clock! "