苟子说：“赠人以言，重于金石珠玉；观人以言，美于黼黻文章”。笔者在多年的实践中，尝试运用赠言的方式，避开板着面孔训所和长篇累胶的说教，让学生从简短的赠言中自悟，取得了很好的效果。下面谈谈赠言的方式。1．赠言因人而异。赠言要考虑对象的个性特征，切忌干篇一律。 Xunzi said: “Give people words, emphasis on Jinshizhuyu; view people to speak, the United States in the article.” In many years of practice, the author tried to use the way of giving speech, avoiding the preaching of the face-faced training and long-term performance, allowing students to self-understand in short words and achieved good results. Let’s talk about ways to give a speech. 1. Gifts vary from person to person. Giving speeches should consider the personality characteristics of the object and should not be allowed to do the same thing.