记得将为人妻时,父母拉着爱女的手谆谆教诲:“从此你是个大人了,不要再象小姑娘时顽皮、任性,要学会谅解和忍让,对丈夫要温柔体贴,举案齐眉。”我连连摇头:“举案齐眉有什么好?那是因为做妻子的长得太丑,怕丈夫看见了会生厌,才把端茶的托盘举至齐眉处遮丑的呀!”尽管我话含诡辩,可想来婚姻也的确是不必也不可能以 I remember when my wife was going to be a wife, my parents took the lady’s hand and told me: “Since then you are an adult. Do not be naughty and wayward like a little girl. Learn to understand and be patient. Be gentle and considerate to your husband.” I shook my head again and again: “What is the case with a good eyebrow? That is because his wife is too ugly, afraid of her husband will see the boredom, only the tray side of the tea to the eyebrows at the ugly ah! ” Despite my words Containing sophistry, can think of marriage is indeed not necessary nor impossible