曾经有一句“其实男人更需要关怀”的广告词,让众多须眉为之怦然心动,因为它道出了男人的内心感受。如今,男人们越来越觉得自己活得太累,整天都面临来自事业与家庭的压力,在焦头烂额,手足无措之时,不少人开始酗酒、赌钱,甚至吸毒,以此寻求解脱。 压力从何而来?其原因是多方面的,社会环境固然是不可忽视的因素,男性对自己、对女性、对周围环境的认识也是一个重要的因素。要调节自己的情绪,必须从自己固有的认识和行为规则入手,因为正是这些因素让男人感受到压力。这里列举几个生活中的规则,对照一下,看你是否受它们的困扰。 Once there is a “man in fact need more care,” the ad, so many men awakened because it tells the man’s inner feelings. Nowadays men are feeling more and more tired themselves and facing pressures from their careers and families all day long. When they are overwhelmed and helpless, many people start to drink, gamble, and even take drugs to seek relief. Where does the pressure come from? There are many reasons for this. The social environment is a factor that can not be ignored. Men’s awareness of themselves, their females and their surroundings is also an important factor. To adjust their emotions, we must start from our own inherent understanding and rules of conduct, because it is these factors that make men feel the pressure. Here are a few rules in life, compare and see if you are troubled by them.