我有个“刻板”的父亲,曾一度让我觉得他过于不近人情。记得读小学时,一天父亲看到我的书包里有许多零食,细问之下,我才道出原委,班级同学让我把家庭作业借他抄,特意买了零食“回报”我。父亲听后语重心长地对我说道:“你的好心行为只会助长同学的懒惰,将来他不学无术一定怪你,即使是同学相求,也不行,得拒绝。”父亲常年在外地做生意,一年难得回来几次,父女间的关系本就有点疏远,不想他一回来就说教,因此当时我对他 I have a “stereotyped” father who once made me think he was too unkind. I remember when I was in primary school, my father saw a lot of snacks in my schoolbag one day. When I asked for details, I did not tell the whole story. The classmate asked me to take homework and take a copy of it. After listening to my father, she said to me in earnest: “Your kind behavior will only encourage students to be lazy. In the future, he will not blame you for not absurdity. Even if you are friends, you will not be able to refuse.” Doing business, a rare few times a year, the relationship between father and daughter was a bit alienated, do not want him to come back to preach, so I was him