第一印象不但指见面之初留下的印象,还包括第一次交往给人造成的印象。艾雷斯是美国的一位电视制片人,他为了制作一套关于街头流氓的纪录片,采访了一帮年轻的小流氓。这帮人的头目是个才17岁的小伙子,显得精神头儿十足,自信心十足,自称在他的抢劫生涯中,每周至少能获得一万美元。艾雷斯:“你都会向哪些人下手呢?”小伙子:“那些一个人低着头走路,看见我时似乎有点害怕的人,是最好的下手对象。” The first impression refers not only to the impression left behind at the beginning of the meeting, but also to the first impression created by the interaction. Aires, a television producer in the United States, interviewed a gang of young hooligans for making a documentary about street gangsters. The heads of these gangs are a 17-year-old young man who is full of energy and self-confidence. He claims to receive at least 10,000 U.S. dollars a week during his robbery. Aires: “Who are you going to start with?” “Boy:” Those who seem to be a bit scared when they walk down and see me are the best targets. “”