贵刊今年第五期发表了对《家庭教育一致性原则》质疑的文章。胡南雪同志所怀疑的是“家庭中的每一成人对其子女、晚辈都具有同样程度的爱,怀有相同的感情”不可能。是的,父亲和母亲,爷爷和奶奶因与孩子亲疏程度不同,其情感投射不可能一致。但是,如果家庭中有两个孩子,要求父母亲对老大、老二一个样就是合理的,而且是可行的。爷爷不能因为孙辈一个是男孩,一个是女孩而在感情投射上有差别,否则就会影响孩子的心身发展。事实上,有的家长,尤其爷爷奶奶 Your fifth issue of this year published an article questioning the “Principles of Family Education Coherence.” What is suspected by Comrade Hu Nan Xue is that “every adult in the family has the same degree of love for his children and younger generations and cherishes the same feelings” is impossible. Yes, fathers and mothers, grandparents and grandma are not likely to have the same emotional projection due to their different degrees of relatives and children. However, if there are two children in the family, it is reasonable and plausible for them to ask their parents for their eldest and second oldest. Grandpa can not because a grandchildren is a boy, a girl in the projection of the differences in the feelings, otherwise it will affect the child’s physical and mental development. In fact, some parents, especially grandparents