编辑同志: 我的丈夫常年在海岛工作,每年探家20余天就返回部队。儿子从小跟着我长大,现在都上初一了,胆子还很小, 什么都依赖我,更让我心酸的是:他和父亲的感情一直很淡漠,寒暑假都不愿意和我一起去看望他爸爸。编辑同志, 部队两地分居的孩子是不是都这样呢?应该怎样教育孩子,才能增进他们父子间的感情呢? 部队家属:赵淑琴 Editor’s Comrade: My husband works on the island all year round and returns to the army more than 20 days a year. My son grew up with me, and now are on the first day, and courage is still very small, everything depends on me, leaving me sad: he and his father’s feelings have been very indifferent summer and summer holidays are not willing to visit with me His father Editor comrades, the separation of troops between the two children are not like this? How should we educate children in order to enhance the feelings between their father and son? Family members: Zhao Shuqin