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近年来,孩子因考试成绩不理想而离家出走,因受老师的批评而患精神分裂,因父母管教过严而自杀,和同伴相处中因小事而大打出手……此类案例常见报端。这一件件事例,这一桩桩血的教训,不能不引起我们家长的疑惑和思考;我们的孩子到底是怎么了?他们为什么如此脆弱?笔者在长期的教育实践中,在历年的家教搜索中,通过调查、研究发现,暂且撇开溺爱、娇宠、社会因素等不谈,最值得我们家长重视的恐怕还是孩子自身的耐挫力。心理学解释:挫折是指人在主观与客观的矛盾发展中受阻或失败而形成的一种心理现象,是一个人目的、欲望没有实现所产生的紧张情绪和情感刺激。我们知道,挫折在一个人的生活和工作中是时有发生的。特别是在经济飞速发展、人才激烈竞争的二十一世纪,遭受挫折更是不可避
In recent years, children leave their homes due to unsatisfactory test scores, suffer from schizophrenia due to teachers’ criticism, parents who discipline themselves to commit suicide, and get along with others due to minor trivial matters. Such cases are commonly reported. This one piece of case, this pile of blood lessons can not but cause our parents doubts and thinking; in the end what happened to our children? Why are they so fragile? In my long-term educational practice, the author in the years of tutor search In the survey, the study found that for the time being apart from spoiled, spoiled, social factors aside, the most worthy of our parents is probably the child’s own frustration. Psychological explanation: Frustration is a kind of psychological phenomenon formed by the obstruction or failure of subjective and objective contradictions, which is a person’s purpose, and the tension and emotion stimulus that the desire does not achieve. We know that setbacks happen from time to time in one’s life and work. Especially in the rapid economic development and fierce competition of talents in the 21st century, it is even more inevitable to suffer setbacks