孩子拿剪刀剪纸,刚剪了两下,就拿给爸爸看。爸爸说:“嗯,不错,剪得好。”看着孩子特别开心,爸爸原本想指出“如果能正确地握剪刀,他的作品会剪得更好”。可话还没说,就听到孩子欣慰地说:“爸爸,我最喜欢你表扬我了!”如此一来,表扬还是指正?表扬的魔力到底有多大?父母真是很想知道。表扬背后的大于号感受到爱希望被表扬是每个人的正常心理需求,很多孩子因为爸爸妈妈的批评而觉得他们不爱自己 Children scissors cut the paper, just cut a couple of times, to give my father to see. Dad said: “Well, good, cut well. ” Looked at the children are particularly happy, my father had wanted to point out “If you can hold the right scissors, his work will cut better.” But then did not say, I heard the child pleased to say: “Father, my favorite you praise me! ” So, praise or correct? Praise the magic in the end how much? Parents really want to know. Recognize the big sign behind the feel love hope to be praised is everyone’s normal psychological needs, many children because of the criticism of parents feel they do not love themselves