人们常说要做“吃苦的准备”、“失败的准备”,过富日子还要做准备吗?有福谁不会享呀? 这个问题,我是由一位朋友身上想到的。这位朋友十多年前去了深圳,如今已有六七位数的家产。吃穿自然不愁,家务有保姆代劳,孩子已参加工作。按说该心满意足吧?而事实上并不是。他与妻子是插队时相识的,一直相知相爱,可近几年却常发生龃龉, It is often said that people should be prepared for “hard-working preparation” and “preparedness for failure,” and should they be prepared for the most prosperous days? Who will not enjoy the blessing? I thought of this issue from a friend. The friend went to Shenzhen more than a decade ago and now has six or seven figures of possessions. Eat and wear natural worry, housework nanny Dai Lao, children have to work. According to say that contentment? But in fact not. He and his wife are acquainted when they cut a line, they always know each other and love each other, but they often happen in recent years.