我的一位德高望重的领导数次在教师会上谈起这样一件他亲身经历的事:这位长年任教高中的长者在新接手一个初中班时,对学生温柔有加处处体贴,孰料学生却是“给点阳光就灿烂”,一段时间下来,成绩下降,班风日下。某一日,一位极富忧患意识的学生径直找到了教师办公室,顾不上“起承 One of my highly respected leaders talked about such a personal experience at the Teachers’ Conference on several occasions: The senior who taught high school all year long took over a junior high school class and was gentle and thoughtful about the students. The students are expected to “give a spotlight to the sunshine”. After a period of time, the grades will drop and the class will fall. On a certain day, a student with a sense of urgency found the teacher’s office straight away and couldn’t attend.