目前在校小学生以独生子女为多,大部分小学生长期受到家长的宠爱,依赖性强,独立意识较弱,自律能力不强。而学校教育又多以课本学习为主,“老师很主动、学生很被动”的教学现象没有给学生多少自主空间,学生广泛缺乏独立思考能力。由于上述家庭与学校教育的影响,许多学生不能对自己进行有效的自我管理。苏霍姆林斯基认为:“真正的教育”是促进学生自我教育的教育。因此,根据小学生的年龄特点和心理发展规律,采取有效的自 At present, primary school pupils are mostly single children. Most primary school children have long been favored by their parents and have strong dependence, weak independent consciousness and poor self-discipline. The school education is mainly based on textbooks. The teaching phenomenon of “the teacher is very active and the students are very passive” did not give students much autonomy, and their students lacked the ability of independent thinking. Due to the above-mentioned impact of home and school education, many students can not effectively manage themselves. Suhomlinski thinks: “Real Education” is an education that promotes students’ self-education. Therefore, according to the characteristics of primary school age and psychological development, to take effective self