教育心理学有个说法,叫做“你听到了你要听的”。这是说,你不需要听的声音你就听不见,你想要听的声音你就听见了。这话乍一听使人疑惑,但看看它举的例子觉得真还是那么回事。这例子是,比如在鸡尾酒会上,觥筹交错,人声嘈杂,但如果你正专注于跟一个有魅力的小姐交谈,那么即使周围 Educational psychology has a saying called “You hear what you want to hear.” This is to say that you don’t need to hear the sound and you don’t hear it. You hear the sound you want to hear. This is a confusing statement, but take a look at the examples it cited and feel that it is still true. This example is, for example, at a cocktail party, where there is a lot of intermingling and noisy people, but if you are focusing on talking to an attractive lady, even if you