我的老大,小学时成绩平平,但智力不差,只是不用功而已。根据这个情况,在他小学毕业前个把月,我给他定了个“跳一下才能达得到”的奋斗目标:报考区重点初中。老二呢,争强好胜,又聪慧。学校对她也寄予厚望。为此,我要她向市属重点初中冲刺。结果是两个孩子均如愿以偿了。大孩子初中毕业时,我又为他制订了第二个奋斗目标,但却比第一次订得艰苦。班 My boss, primary school grade average, but intelligence is not bad, just do not work hard. According to this situation, a month before his elementary school graduation, I set him a “jump to get” the goal: to apply for key junior high school. Second child, strong and bright, but also bright. The school also placed high hopes on her. To this end, I asked her to focus on junior high school sprint. The result is that both children got their wish. When I graduated from junior high school, I set a second goal for him, but it was even harder than the first one. class