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下棋讲棋逢对手,跳舞要选准舞伴。舞伴可以是临时的,舞前舞后你都不必知道她的姓名;舞伴可以是熟人和同事,边跳舞边聊一些亲切的话题,或说一些可有可无的话。舞伴最好是年轻的、对眼的。跳舞不仅讲究舞技;而且还要感觉好。只有感觉好,舞才跳得默契;感觉不好,可能一曲即散。当然有时出于礼貌或者其它原因,明明知道同她跳感觉不会好,也不得不硬着头皮敷衍一下,比如对方是你的顶头上司或是一位你平常不得不打交道的人。
Chess chess every opponent, dance to be allowed to associate dance partner. The dance partner can be temporary, and you do not have to know her name before dancing; the dance partner can be an acquaintance and a colleague, dancing and talking about some gracious topics, or saying something optional. Best partner is young, right eye. Dance not only pay attention to dance skills; but also feel good. Only feel good, dance was tacit understanding; feeling bad, may be a song that is scattered. Of course, sometimes for courtesy or other reasons, knowing that she will not feel good jump, and had to bite the bullet perfunctory, such as the other is your boss or you usually have to deal with people.