人们常说:只有有问题的父母,没有有问题的孩子。孩子自小就好似一块有待雕琢的璞玉,“玉不琢,不成器。”一般说来,每个孩子除了在性格、脾气、身体状况上有些差距外,其智商、灵性方面都大同小异,没有很大的差距。父母作为孩子的第一任老师,成为子女的当然监护人和教育者。奇怪的是,同样身为父母,同样教育子女,有的父母能将子女培育成德才兼备的“龙凤”,有的父母只能把子女培养成一个德才平平的普 People often say: Only the parents who have problems, there is no problem children. As a child, the child is like a piece of unpolished stone to be carved. “In general, every child has similar intelligence and spirituality except for personality, temperament and physical condition. Big difference. Parents as children’s first teachers, as children’s natural guardian and educator. Strangely, the same as a parent, the same education of children, some parents can develop their children into a ”dragon and phoenix" both ability and political integrity, and some parents can only develop their children into a just