处女膜破裂,理应出点血,但出血如果很少,肉眼也未必能看得见。处女膜破裂也可能通过非性交因素发生,如手淫、外伤等。笔者在妇科经常看到小女孩的处女膜有裂口。用检查处女膜有无裂口的方法并不能判断此人是不是处女。不幸的是,古今中外很多民族都犯有同一个毛病:从不过问这男人是不是处男,而只计较女人是否为处女。而判断的依据却是只看处女膜在初交时是否有出血。最令人难堪又残忍的检验方法是由新郎的父亲用纱布卷在手指上当众戳试,如无血则由新郎长兄当场用长刀割断新娘脖子。好多民族 Hymen rupture, it should be a little blood, but if little bleeding, the naked eye may not be able to see. Hymen rupture may also occur through non-sexual factors, such as masturbation, trauma and so on. I often see the girl’s hymen in gynecology have a gap. The method of checking for the presence or absence of a hymen does not determine whether the person is a virgin or not. Unfortunately, many ethnic groups, both ancient and modern, have committed the same problem: they never question whether the man is a virgin or not, but only whether the woman is a virgin. The basis for judging is to see only the hymen at the first delivery if there is bleeding. The most embarrassing and cruel test method is the groom’s father with gauze roll in the finger on the public test, such as no blood, the groom’s eldest brother on the spot with a long knife to cut the bride’s neck. Many ethnic groups